How to elope in Hawaii / infos and packages for an adventure elopement
TIPS. VENUES & LOCATION IDEAS
So, you’re dreaming of an elopement in Hawaii, but you don’t know where to start? You’ve come to the right place! This comprehensive guide has been written with you in mind, to help you:
– find the best location for your adventure elopement in Hawaii
– plan it step-by-step
– answer all your questions
– discover what if will look like if I photograph and plan it for you!
Let’s dive in…
First, let’s get on the same page…
What is an elopement?
Elopements happen since love exists. In the past, it meant
that two people madly in love got married in secret.
However, it is now WAY more than this.
An elopement in the way for a couple to have a “just us”
wedding experience, and avoid all the drama, stress and
anxiety that comes with planning a big wedding. Most
couples who elope are seeking an amazing experience,
while exchanging their vows on top of a mountain, on a
secluded beach or in a forest, only surrounded by their
closest friends and family – or nobody at all.
Elopements may be legal in many states of the US,
including Hawaii.
How to elope in Hawaii legally
You have two options when it comes to eloping in Hawaii:
01. Make your elopement the legal day of your marriage. This is very easy to do since Hawaii has a very simplified process for a marriage license, even for foreigners. First, you’ll need to apply online on the EMRS website, and pay the $65 fee. Then, you’ll need to find an official performer, approved by the State of Hawaii. The comprehensive list can be found here. This celebrant will be the one issuing the official marriage license to you, and you can then have your license with you for your ceremony to be legal.
02. Make your elopement a symbolic day and get legally married in your state or country of origin beforehand. This is another option if you don’t want or can’t get officially married in Hawaii. You can check your government’s website for marriage regulations and get legally married in your town, then have a symbolic elopement in a beautiful place in Hawaii, stress and legal-stuff free!
Why you should plan an elopement in Hawaii
Beautiful weather
Hawaii is a tropical location. If you’re looking to elope in a warm and sunny place, Hawaii will be the perfect location for you. In fact, every season
has something beautiful and new to offer!
Incredible diversity
Hawaii is an adventurer’s dream come true. You will find pristine beaches, dramatic cliffs, peaceful mountains and roaring volcanoes. You can hike in a green valley in the morning and dip your toes on a sandy beach at sunset in
Hawaii.
Very easy process
Making your elopement legal won’t be a problem in Hawaii. You can read the preceding section to learn more about how to make this big day legal, but it is definitely one of its
amazing perks.
The best locations for an elopement in Hawaii
The Na Pali coast by boat
This beautiful mountain range merges into the sea, with dramatic drops and a breathtaking forest landscape. The NaPali Coast is best discovered by boat or helicopter, since there are very few hiking spots and it is very high, plus it’s illegal to get married on the land or to take wedding photos.
Kokee State Park
With beautiful vistas and deep forests, this state park is a beautiful place to elope in Hawaii! You can exchange your vows at sunset overlooking some beautiful landscapes, after an easy hike to a viewpoint of your choice. For your ceremony, a permit is required and you won’t be allowed to take photos everywhere in the park.
Waimea Canyon State Park
This is my favorite place in Hawaii for elopements. If dramatic landscapes are your thing, the Waimea Canyon is an absolute dream come true for exchanging your vows! Right now, the regulations don’t allow for any kind of wedding or photoshoots in the park, but it might change in the future!
Mahaulepu Beach
With limited access, this beach is best visited by horse. However, it is worth the hassle, because you won’t encounter many people there. You will be able to enjoy some dramatic, beautiful landscapes. The ride to go there itself is worth the detour. You will need a Wiki Permit to have your ceremony there.
Hawaii Volcanoes National Park
A must-see during your visit to Hawaii, this state park requires a permit but it is definitely worth the hassle! You can exchange your vows at sunset, overlooking a bright red lava fall, for example! You will need a National Park permit to have your ceremony there, and it will be limited to specific spots in the National Park.
Pro tip:
There are TONS of amazing, beautiful and inspiring places to elope in Hawaii. I have a long list of other places you
might consider for your elopement in Hawaii!
The most beautiful elopement venues in Hawaii
If you want something accessible – at least to exchange your vows!
Other elopement vendors in Hawaii
The best time for an elopement in Hawaii
WINTER
Hawaii’s winter is much warmer than the other states (or pretty much any other country actually). In January, the average temperature is 18°C (66°F), which is really nice when it’s pretty cold at home. It will rain more in the winter, but the rain tends to fall during the night in Hawaii. This is great because it doesn’t interfere with your day plans.
If you have the soul of a surfer, Hawaii’s biggest waves also come in the winter. Therefore, if you’re looking to catch some giant waves, be sure to visit during winter and head to the North Shores of Oahu!
SPRING
When spring comes, the rainy days of winter are just a distant memory. The weather is warm and nice, and the crowds of tourists haven’t arrived. The prices for flights and accommodations are also on the lower side.
May has been the preferred month for weddings in Hawaii. You will
enjoy nice weather, less rain, no crowds, amazing hiking opportunities
and less expensive accommodations and flights.
SUMMER
Summer is the peak tourist season. Therefore, prices are high and it is crowded everywhere. However, if you follow my tips to avoid Oahu and preferably travel to the other islands, you will definitely enjoy some quieter areas to exchange your vows. Summer is hurricane season in Hawaii, even if storms are very rare. The Big Island and Kauai are the least visited islands, so if you want to avoid people, be sure to check them out first!
Summer is also the best time for diving and snorkeling. You will be able to discover many different fish species, while enjoying calmer, nicer water without the big winter waves.
FALL
November is the best month (as well as April) to visit Hawaii. The
tourists are gone and you will still have very nice weather and beautiful views. Early fall is the best time to be hitting the trails, if hiking in Hawaii is your favorite elopement experience.
What to wear for your elopement in Hawaii
Even if elopements are generally considered to be laid-back and casual, this is not necessarily the case. Elopements can also be luxurious, delicate affairs and will require some special adjustments. Feeling beautiful while exchanging your vows and wearing something truly special for this moment might be something you truly care about. This section will cover everything you need to know when it comes to what to wear for your elopement in Hawaii.
The Dress
Don’t forget about the weather! Hawaii is a very warm place and wearing a warm, heavy dress is not an option for your elopement.
When you choose your dress, try to go for a flowy, layered dress that will flow with the wind. It will also dry easily if you get it wet. Don’t forget you will also walk a lot in your dress, so make sure it is comfortable when you are putting it on for the first time. A beautiful dress will look awesome for pictures and will enhance the way you will feel on this special day!
The Shoes
You should try to avoid heels and shoes you will not feel comfortable walking long distances in. Adventure elopements are about finding that beautiful, personalized place just for you. However, it might include some short hikes to get there. You will definitely love a good pair of leather hiking boots that will pair nicely with your wedding attire. It will add a touch of radness and adventure to your elopement pictures!
The Suit
You should definitely avoid a three-piece tuxedo, you will be very uncomfortable in because of the warmth. You can be elegant, while still wearing something light and airy, without having to wear an Hawaiian shirt! You can wear short sleeves with nice linen pants, paired with the colors of the dress. White is always classy but can stain easily, especially if the ground is muddy. Try to think about where you will exchange your vows, and choose your color accordingly.
Other things to consider
Always carry emergency supplies with you like water, a first aid kit, mosquito repellent, snacks, a water pouch for your bouquet, safety pins, a layer of warmth for each of you (it can get cold very quickly, once the sun sets in Hawaii), an extra pair of shoes, bobby pins, and everything you might need while being out in the wild for several hours.
What is the cost of an elopement in Hawaii?
HIGH – END ELOPEMENT
Travel to and from Hawaii: $2.500
Wedding license: $65
Five nights in a high-end accommodation // $2.500
Elopement photographer // $7.000
Private chef or full board // $1.000
Officiant // $1.000
Florist // $500
Rentals // $500
Wedding dress and accessories // $4.000
Suit and accessories // $1.000
TOTAL FOR A HIGH – END ELOPEMENT IN HAWAII :
$20,065
BUDGET ELOPEMENT
Travel to and from Hawaii: $2.500
Wedding license: $65
Five nights in an airbnb // $1.000
Elopement photographer // $5.000
Food // $250
Officiant // $500
Florist // $200
Wedding dress and accessories // $2.500
Suit and accessories // $500
TOTAL FOR A BUDGET ELOPEMENT IN HAWAII :
$12.515
Eloping in Hawaii – your checklist
Think about where you’d like to go
Hawaii is very diverse. You cannot simply go there for one thing. Would you like to exchange your vows on a beach? Would you prefer an incredible hike to the top of a mountain? How about a boat overlooking the Na Pali Coast? Would you like to go to the top of a mountain after a helicopter ride? Everything is possible. Once you agree on what kind of background you’d like for your elopement in Hawaii, you’ll be good to go.
Pick a date
Hawaii is a well-hidden little gem well hidden. However, it is a popular tourist destination, especially on the main island, Oahu. It is recommended that you avoid crowded tourist destinations like Waikik Beach or Diamond Head. On the other islands, you will find fewer people. In those places, you will definitely be able to find the perfect location for your elopement in Hawaii. Try to plan your ceremony on a weekday, your officiant will be more flexible on those days, the parks will be less crowded, and if you avoid the peak summer tourist season of summer, you will have your pick of any location on the islands.
Find more information about travel visas
If you plan to get married in Hawaii and you are not a US citizen, you might want to look into the travel visas needed to plan your elopement in Hawaii. If you are a US citizen, follow the procedure explained in this article to obtain your marriage certificate.
Book your accommodation
Once you have picked an area/island for your elopement, it’s time to book your accommodations. There will be plenty of available options. They will depend on the budget you’re ready to allocate for your lodging. Some hotels are all inclusive and offer an amazing experience for their guests. You also have the option of renting a good AiBnB for a fraction of the price.
Find a place to exchange your vows
Your photographer might be able to help you to find a suitable location. Since seasoned photographers know where to go, ask your photographer first about the best place to exchange your vows. You can also find hikes and other ideas on the official websites of Tourism Hawaii and the island that you have chosen for your big day. Don’t forget to take into account the people who will be with you at this amazing event. If you’re planning a “just the two of you” kind of day, don’t hesitate to splurge and rent an helicopter or a boat to enjoy all the wonderful panoramas Hawaii has to offer.
Book your other vendors
Officiant, florist, private chef, decorator, dress designer, wedding rings…these are all things you will need to take care of, while planning your elopement in Hawaii.
Plan your travel
To be honest, eloping in Hawaii is an amazing opening to even more amazing travel. You don’t have to simply exchange your vows and return immediately to your life. Your travel experience can last as long as you want. Hawaii has many things to offer! You can plan a long road trip around the islands to visit all the iconic spots. This will allow you to take in all the Hawaiian food, culture and nature.
Book your photographer
Once you have started your planning, the next step is to book your photographer. Since things are booked far in advance, the earlier you make your places, the better. Look for a photographer with a style that you like, and proven experience in Hawaii, you can truly have an amazing day with a competent professional on your side.
Let’s chat!
Are you eager to start planning your elopement in Hawaii? I’m here to help you envision, plan and immortalize this beautiful adventure! Contact me now for a free consultation!
A beautiful elopement in Hawaii shot by Cam Gregg
