Your dream Hawaii elopement – the ultimate planning guide
UPDATED FOR 2024-2025
AT A GLANCE
Best time to elope in Hawaii
For the best weather: March to September
For whale watching: December to April
Can foreigners get legally married?
Yes, in Hawaii, love is universal. Regardless of orientation or background, everyone is welcome to marry amidst the beauty of the islands.
Cool piece of info
Hawaii is the only U.S. state where you can experience all four of the world’s major climate zones—ranging from Wet Tropical to Polar Tundra—due to the diverse elevations and environments found across its islands.
Embark on a journey to the heart of paradise with your dream Hawaii elopement, where the whispers of the ocean meet the embrace of lush landscapes and volcanic majesty. Hawaii offers a mesmerizing backdrop for couples seeking an intimate union, wrapped in the warmth of aloha spirit and breathtaking natural wonders. From the serene beaches with their golden sunsets to the mystical heights of its active volcanoes, planning your Hawaii elopement is an invitation to experience love in its purest form, against the canvas of one of the most enchanting destinations on earth. Let this guide be your compass to a celebration as boundless and vibrant as the islands themselves.
Let’s dive in…
How to elope in Hawaii – a quick checklist
- Choose the best time of the year to elope
- Choose your elopement location
- Choose the duration of your stay (I recommend anywhere between 7 to 15 days to fully discover the islands)
- Book your flights
- Book your accommodation
- Book your activities
- Get your wedding license
- Need help? Check out my Hawaii elopement packages
- Last details before you leave
How to Legally Elope in Hawaii
You have two options when it comes to your Hawaii elopement:
01. Make your elopement the legal day of your marriage. This is very easy to do since Hawaii has a very simplified process for a marriage license, even for foreigners. First, you’ll need to apply online on the EMRS website, and pay the $65 fee. Then, you’ll need to find an official performer, approved by the State of Hawaii. The comprehensive list can be found here. This celebrant will be the one issuing the official marriage license to you, and you can then have your license with you for your ceremony to be legal.
02. Make your elopement a symbolic day and get legally married in your state or country of origin beforehand. This is another option if you don’t want or can’t get officially married in Hawaii. You can check your government’s website for marriage regulations and get legally married in your town, then have a symbolic elopement in a beautiful place in Hawaii, stress and legal-stuff free!
Can foreigners elope in Hawaii?
Yes! Wherever you come from, and whatever your gender, religion or sexual orientation is, you can get legally married in Hawaii!
Top 5 Hawaii elopement locations
For boat enthusiasts – The Na Pali Coast
This beautiful mountain range merges into the sea, with dramatic drops and a breathtaking forest landscape. The NaPali Coast is best discovered by boat or helicopter, since there are very few hiking spots and it is very high, plus it’s illegal to get married on the land or to take wedding photos. But it’s great location for afterwards!
To feel like you’re on another planet – Kokee State Park
With beautiful vistas and deep forests, this state park is a beautiful place for your Hawaii elopement! You can exchange your vows at sunset overlooking some beautiful landscapes, after an easy hike to a viewpoint of your choice. For your ceremony, a permit is required and you won’t be allowed to take photos everywhere in the park.
For some amazing views – Waimea Canyon State Park
This is my favorite place in Hawaii for elopements. If dramatic landscapes are your thing, the Waimea Canyon is an absolute dream come true for exchanging your vows! Right now, the regulations don’t allow for any kind of wedding or photoshoots in the park, but it might change in the future!
For a good hike – Mahaulepu Beach
With limited access, this beach is best visited by horse. However, it is worth the hassle, because you won’t encounter many people there. You will be able to enjoy some dramatic, beautiful landscapes. The ride to go there itself is worth the detour. You will need a Wiki Permit to have your ceremony there.
For an incredible memory – Hawaii Volcanoes National Park
A must-see during your visit to Hawaii, this state park requires a permit but it is definitely worth the hassle! You can exchange your vows at sunset, overlooking a bright red lava fall, for example! You will need a National Park permit to have your ceremony there, and it will be limited to specific spots in the National Park.
Did you know?
There is so much more to Hawaii than its pristine beaches. When you decide to plan your elopement with me, I will curate a personalized list of 4 to 5 extraordinary off-the-beaten-path locations that align perfectly with your preferences. Let me guide you to the hidden treasures of Hawaii, far from the usual tourist spots.
When to plan your Hawaii elopement
For surf enthusiasts – winter
Hawaii’s winter is much warmer than the other states (or pretty much any other country actually). In January, the average temperature is 18°C (66°F), which is really nice when it’s pretty cold at home. It will rain more in the winter, but the rain tends to fall during the night in Hawaii. This is great because it doesn’t interfere with your day plans.
If you have the soul of a surfer, Hawaii’s biggest waves also come in the winter. Therefore, if you’re looking to catch some giant waves, be sure to visit during winter and head to the North Shores of Oahu!
The best option – spring
When spring comes, the rainy days of winter are just a distant memory. The weather is warm and nice, and the crowds of tourists haven’t arrived. The prices for flights and accommodations are also on the lower side. May has been the preferred month for weddings in Hawaii. You will enjoy nice weather, less rain, no crowds, amazing hiking opportunities and less expensive accommodations and flights.
The peak season – summer
Summer is the peak tourist season. Therefore, prices are high and it is crowded everywhere. However, if you follow my tips to avoid Oahu and preferably travel to the other islands, you will definitely enjoy some quieter areas to exchange your vows. Summer is hurricane season in Hawaii, even if storms are very rare. The Big Island and Kauai are the least visited islands, so if you want to avoid people, be sure to check them out first!
Summer is also the best time for diving and snorkeling. You will be able to discover many different fish species, while enjoying calmer, nicer water without the big winter waves.
The best hikes – fall
November is the best month (as well as April) to visit Hawaii. The tourists are gone and you will still have very nice weather and beautiful views. Early fall is the best time to be hitting the trails, if hiking in Hawaii is your favorite elopement experience.
Did you know?
As an elopement guide and photographer in Hawaii, I offer a reassuring service to all my couples by providing complimentary transportation during their elopement adventure. This allows them to fully immerse themselves in the joy of their elopement experience, while I expertly manage all the logistics, including the unique challenge of driving on the other side of the road!
Unique Things to Do When You Elope in Hawaii
Hawaii offers a wealth of adventurous and outdoorsy activities that provide unforgettable experiences beyond the typical tourist attractions. These activities offer a blend of adventure, natural beauty, and unique experiences that will make your trip to Hawaii truly unforgettable. Plus, they provide opportunities to connect with the islands in a deeper and more adventurous way.Here are five incredible activities to consider for your Hawaiian elopement:
Snorkel in Molokini Crater (Maui)
Explore the crystal-clear waters of Molokini Crater, a submerged volcanic crater just off the coast of Maui. Snorkeling here offers a chance to witness vibrant coral reefs and a diverse marine ecosystem. It’s a unique and less crowded way to appreciate Hawaii’s underwater beauty.
Hike to Waipio Valley (Big Island)
Embark on a challenging hike into the lush Waipio Valley on the Big Island. This remote valley features towering waterfalls, black sand beaches, and dramatic cliffs. The journey to the valley floor offers breathtaking vistas and a glimpse into Hawaii’s wild side.
Backcountry Helicopter Tour (Kauai)
Discover the hidden landscapes of Kauai with a backcountry helicopter tour. Unlike standard helicopter tours, this adventure takes you deep into remote valleys and canyons that are inaccessible by foot. Witness cascading waterfalls, rugged cliffs, and the “Grand Canyon of the Pacific” from a unique perspective.
Kayak to the Mokulua Islands (Oahu)
Escape the crowds and paddle to the Mokulua Islands off the coast of Oahu. These twin islands are known for their pristine beaches and abundant wildlife. Kayaking allows you to explore secluded coves, spot seabirds, and enjoy a tranquil day in nature.
Nighttime Manta Ray Snorkel (Big Island)
Experience a thrilling and otherworldly adventure by joining a nighttime manta ray snorkel on the Big Island. You’ll snorkel near the surface with manta rays as they feed on plankton, illuminated by underwater lights. It’s a surreal and enchanting encounter with these gentle giants.
What To Wear When Eloping In Hawaii
Even if elopements are generally considered to be laid-back and casual, this is not necessarily the case. Elopements can also be luxurious, delicate affairs and will require some special adjustments. Feeling beautiful while exchanging your vows and wearing something truly special for this moment might be something you truly care about. This section will cover everything you need to know when it comes to what to wear for your elopement in Hawaii.
The Dress
Don’t forget about the weather! Hawaii is a very warm place and wearing a warm, heavy dress is not an option for your elopement.
When you choose your dress, try to go for a flowy, layered dress that will flow with the wind. It will also dry easily if you get it wet. Don’t forget you will also walk a lot in your dress, so make sure it is comfortable when you are putting it on for the first time. A beautiful dress will look awesome for pictures and will enhance the way you will feel on this special day!
The Shoes
You should try to avoid heels and shoes you will not feel comfortable walking long distances in. Adventure elopements are about finding that beautiful, personalized place just for you. However, it might include some short hikes to get there. You will definitely love a good pair of leather hiking boots that will pair nicely with your wedding attire. It will add a touch of radness and adventure to your elopement pictures!
The Suit
You should definitely avoid a three-piece tuxedo, you will be very uncomfortable in because of the warmth. You can be elegant, while still wearing something light and airy, without having to wear an Hawaiian shirt! You can wear short sleeves with nice linen pants, paired with the colors of the dress. White is always classy but can stain easily, especially if the ground is muddy. Try to think about where you will exchange your vows, and choose your color accordingly.
Other things to consider
Always carry emergency supplies with you like water, a first aid kit, mosquito repellent, snacks, a water pouch for your bouquet, safety pins, a layer of warmth for each of you (it can get cold very quickly, once the sun sets in Hawaii), an extra pair of shoes, bobby pins, and everything you might need while being out in the wild for several hours.
Typical food and dishes from Hawaii
You might want to integrate into your elopement day
For a festive twist: the Lu’au
Lu’au dishes, served at traditional Hawaiian feasts, showcase the diverse flavors and ingredients of the islands. From succulent kalua pig slow-cooked in an imu oven to laulau, a bundle of tender meat and fish wrapped in taro leaves, these dishes exemplify the art of Hawaiian cooking. Accompanied by staples like poi, lomi lomi salmon, and haupia, a creamy coconut dessert, lu’au dishes offer a rich and vibrant culinary experience that celebrates the cultural heritage and abundance of the Hawaiian islands.
For a meaty delight: the Kalua pork
Kalua pork, a beloved Hawaiian dish, showcases the island’s rich culinary traditions and the art of imu cooking. The tender, smoky shredded pork, traditionally prepared by slow-roasting in an underground oven, is a testament to the deep connection between the people, the land, and the flavors of Hawaii. With its succulent meat and hints of sea salt, Kalua pork embodies the spirit of aloha and is a centerpiece of festive feasts, where friends and family gather to share in the deliciousness of this iconic dish.
For a delicious blend: the Chicken long rice
Chicken longrice, a popular dish in Hawaiian and Filipino cuisine, offers a delightful blend of flavors and textures. Tender chicken is simmered in a savory broth infused with ginger, garlic, and soy sauce, creating a deeply comforting and aromatic base. Served over a bed of delicate rice noodles, Chicken longrice is a warm and satisfying dish that embodies the spirit of Asian-inspired comfort food.
Hawaii elopement packages and pricing
All my packages include:
- From 1-2 locations to a full 7 days honeymoon and elopement adventure photography coverage
- Custom planning by a travel agent and elopement planner with:
- A list of 3 to 4 location recommendations based on your vision (waterfall? black beach? volcano? lake? mountains? You name it!)
- Complimentary transportation for your day(s)
- Concierge service for vendors, accommodation, restaurants, you name it! And the option of having it all included in your package
- Help with anything related to accessibility, permits and rules
- A printed “how to elope” guide with everything you need to know
- A custom timeline for your day(s)
- The possibility to get legally married by your photographer (we’re all US ministers!)
- Online gallery you can share with the world
- My travels feels to anywhere in Hawaii are already included!
- Starting at $10.750
Last details before you leave for Hawaii
Ready to set off and discover the islands of sun and surf? Here are a few final pearls of wisdom.
Packing list
For your trip to Hawaii, prioritize lightweight clothing, a light jacket for cool nights, and robust sun protection including sunscreen and a wide-brimmed hat. Sturdy hiking shoes are essential for exploring, and snorkeling gear will enhance your ocean adventures. Remember to pack eco-friendly items like a reusable water bottle and coral-safe sunscreen to protect the island’s natural beauty.
Renting a car
Renting a car in Hawaii is highly recommended to fully experience the islands’ diverse landscapes and hidden gems. It gives you the freedom to explore at your own pace, from secluded beaches to majestic waterfalls and scenic drives. Ensure you book in advance, especially during peak travel seasons, to secure the best rates and availability. Remember to familiarize yourself with local driving regulations and consider eco-friendly rental options to minimize your environmental impact.
How to island hop
Island hopping in Hawaii is primarily done by air, with frequent flights connecting the islands for quick and convenient travel. For a unique adventure, consider a helicopter tour for stunning aerial views of the diverse landscapes. While there’s limited ferry service, specifically between Maui and Lanai, flying remains the best option for exploring the distinct beauty of each island efficiently. Plan ahead to make the most of your Hawaiian journey.
How to pay in Hawaii
In Hawaii, the U.S. dollar is the standard currency, and credit cards are widely accepted. It’s advisable to have some cash for smaller transactions, but for most expenses, using a credit card is convenient. ATMs are easily accessible across the islands.
Language in Hawaii
In Hawaii, English is the main language, with Hawaiian also officially recognized and widely celebrated in cultural expressions and place names, enriching your visit with local heritage.
Formalities – do we need a visa to visit Hawaii?
If you’re from the US, you don’t need to do anything. If you’re from another country, check out this map to know if you need a visa to visit Hawaii:
A small conclusion: Why Elope in Hawaii?
Beautiful weather
Hawaii is a tropical location. If you’re looking to elope in a warm and sunny place, Hawaii will be the perfect location for you. In fact, every season has something beautiful and new to offer!
Incredible diversity
Hawaii is an adventurer’s dream come true. You will find pristine beaches, dramatic cliffs, peaceful mountains and roaring volcanoes. You can hike in a green valley in the morning and dip your toes on a sandy beach at sunset in Hawaii.
Very easy process
Making your elopement legal won’t be a problem in Hawaii. You can read the preceding section to learn more about how to make this big day legal, but it is definitely one of its amazing perks.
Let’s chat!
Are you eager to start planning your elopement in Hawaii? I’m here to help you envision, plan and immortalize this beautiful adventure! Contact me now for a free consultation!
Welcome to the Adventure of a Lifetime
Hey there, I’m Amber, your dedicated elopement photographer and planner, here to make your special day absolutely unforgettable. Whether you prefer a stress-free, all-inclusive package or enjoy adding your personal touch, I’ve got you covered. From finding the perfect location to suggesting vendors and organizing travel arrangements, I’ll tailor every detail to reflect your unique love story. With me by your side, you can fully immerse yourselves in the moment as you exchange vows and create lifelong memories. Let’s make your elopement day as exceptional as your love story deserves to be!
